The role of negative reciprocity in spouse abuse: A relational control analysis

Abstract

This study examined the relational control patterns of ten abusive couples to identify patterns of negative reciprocity. Compared to non‐abusive couples, spouses in abusive relationships tended to escalate their verbal exchanges by consistently responding with one‐up moves to each others’ comments, regardless of the direction of control. This domineering pattern in which both spouses assert, but neither accepts the other's effort at control, may be a result of skill deficiency in arguing constructively. Implications of these results are discussed in terms of dyadic level treatment and interpersonal skills training.