Families of borderline patients: literal-minded parents, borderline parents, and parental protectiveness

Abstract

While borderline personality disorder is a well-established psychiatric diagnosis, less is known about family functioning and intractional patterns in subjects with the disorder. Interactional patterns are described in families of borderline children where one parent has a severe personality disorder and the other fails to protect the child adequately against the effects of that psychopathology. Two types of parents are described; the literal-minded parent and the borderline parent. The literal-minded parent resembles an alexithymic patient lacking the ability to empathically understand and respond to the child''s feelings and needs. The borderline parent uses the child as the target of projections and reality distortions. Therapy should mobilize the active protective functions of the healthier parent.