‘You’ and ‘I’, ‘Here’ and ‘Now’: Spatial and Social Situatedness in Deixis

Abstract

I examine the ordinary‐language use of deictic terms, notably the personal, spatial and temporal markers ‘I’ and ‘you’, ‘here’ and ‘now’, in order to make manifest that their meaning is inextricably embedded within a pragmatic, perceptual and interpersonal situation. This inextricable embeddedness of deixis within the shared natural and social world suggests, I contend, an I–you connectedness at the heart of meaning and experience. The thesis of I–you connectedness extends to the larger claim about the situatedness of embodied perceivers within a shared perspectivally configured milieu. This claim can be cast in terms of a polycentric orientation to the natural and social world, which provides a robust alternative to an egocentric conception of experience. I develop this claim via a renewed phenomenological reflection on speech, assisted by ordinary‐language philosophy, as well as relevant contributions from empirical sociolinguistic studies and developmental psychology. These reflective and empirical perspectives help make a case for the primacy of socially and spatially situated experience, which departs from the received notion of an asocial and uprooted mind.